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WTM.org is a community for people who have decided to wait until marriage to have sex.

We are not affiliated with any particular religion, although we have members of all faiths and many with none. If you're waiting, or dating somebody who is waiting, then this site is meant to make your life easier (and introduce you to some new friends).

Waiting for marriage articles

Being single is hard for those who wait. Let’s fix that.

by: Mike | February 23rd, 2014

If you're waiting until marriage to have sex, being single is a special kind of torture. It's tempting to think "oh it's extra hard because I'm single AND still a virgin" but that's not where most of the pain comes from.

New Forum Feature: Ask a Successful (Married) Waiter

by: Mike | January 26th, 2014

Do you have questions that you'd like to ask people who waited until marriage to have sex? Now's your chance! Our new "Ask a Successful Waiter" category on the forum is staffed by four of our married members, who are standing by to answer you questions.

Study: What qualities make you an ideal romantic partner?

by: Mike | January 14th, 2014

A new study, titled Gender Differences: What We Seek in Romantic and Sexual Partners, offers some novel insights about what qualities we look for in romantic and sexual partners.

The Ultimate Book on Waiting: The Waiting Till Marriage Survival Guide

by: Mike | April 23rd, 2014

A comprehensive handbook for anybody who's decided to wait until marriage to have sex.

Episode 4: Acceptance

by: Selina | December 8th, 2013

Most of us joined this site because of our silent worries of what soci


Check out this list of popular songs written directly about the experience of waiting till marriage.


Since most waiters are hopeless romantics, we've collected videos and short films that will make you feel warm and fuzzy.


Check out this list of popular waiter-favorite books and vote for your favorites.

The Virgin Map

This site attracts interest from all over the world. Click to see how not alone you are!

Meet other people who are waiting till marriage